Showing posts with label Christian Home. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christian Home. Show all posts

A MOTHER'S LEGACY


“I will open my mouth in a parable; I will utter dark sayings of old, which we have heard and known, and our fathers have told us. We will not hide them from our children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the Lord, and His strength and His wonderful works that He has done” (Psalm 78:2-4).

Ever since David first became king, he had one burning desire—to build a temple for the Lord that would bring glory to His name. But because David had been a man of war, that privilege could not be his. And yet, God didn’t bypass him altogether.  “The Lord, through his angel, instructed David, and gave him a pattern of the house which Solomon should build for Him. An angel was commissioned to stand by David while he was writing out, for the benefit of Solomon, the important directions in regard to the arrangement of the house” (The Spirit of Prophecy, volume 1, pg. 387).

But David did more than that,  for his heart was totally in God’s work. He emptied his treasuries to give an abundant offering for the Lord’s temple—100,000 talents of gold, one million talents of silver, and iron beyond measure. Over the years, he collected other materials, such as timber and stone—all that could be used for the temple. And in the final years of his reign, David passed all this wealth and all the plans he’d received to Solomon who would build  the “courts of the house of the Lord, of all the chambers all around, of the treasuries of the house of God, and of the treasuries for the dedicated things” (1 Chronicles 28:12).


 David left a precious legacy for Solomon to follow. But even beyond all this, he desired his son to remember the One whom he would build it for. “As for you, my son Solomon, know the God of your father, and serve Him with a loyal heart and with a willing mind; for the Lord searches all hearts and understands all the intent of the thoughts. If you seek Him, He will be found by you” (1 Chronicles 28:9).

If there was one thing you would want to pass to your children, what would it be? While you might want to bless them in many ways, don’t you want for them the same thing that David did? To see your children pick up the torch you have laid down? To serve the Lord faithfully with all their heart?

This kind of legacy isn’t something you can wrap up in a package and hand over to them like a birthday present. It’s something that’s built right now. What our children see in us today is our precious legacy to them. The faith they see in us will make the greatest impact in their lives when they see us living what we believe. When they see a faith that works, one that makes a real difference in our life, they may choose that faith for their own.


But a Christlike example will be much more powerful when we couple it with the words of God. I can’t imagine living for Christ and not sharing Him with our children. Love for Jesus always overflows in words and actions, never one without the other. And I can think of no better place for our love to flow than in our own homes. If we are parents, this is our first and most important mission field. God has given us these precious children to raise for Him. They belong first to Jesus. But He’s given us the precious privilege of leading them to Christ and teaching them to grow as He did, “in wisdom, in stature, and in favor with God and man” (Luke 2:52).

As parents, it’s easy to get sidetracked from our ultimate mission. But if we want to give our children a spiritual legacy, if we want to pass on a faith that never quits, we need to share faith every single day. We need to bring our children to the Savior’s feet and open the Bible as a family. The church or the church school can help us in our mission, but we are the primary disciple-makers of our sons and daughters. It is our responsibility to bring them up in the “training and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).

Family worship is such a wonderful way to plant God’s love in your children’s heart and help them follow Jesus. As you read the stories of David or of Peter and Paul, you’re building a legacy of faith that will stay with them the rest of their lives. They won’t easily forget those precious stories. And when they need God the most, He will bring those words back to their minds. They will be like an anchor that holds them close to Jesus and keeps them on the right track.


As I look at my daughters today, I see them passing on the same legacy that my husband and I passed onto them. Every day they sit down with their families, reading the Bible stories they once learned at home. And their little ones are growing in faith. They know they can talk to Jesus anytime and He will hear them. They know that Jesus is a forever Friend, who is always there to help them. They see a picture of Christ in their Mommy and Daddy’s lives as they model how to be happy Christians, serving the Lord with all their hearts.

I may not have much money to pass onto my children,  but when I see them worshiping the Lord as a family and faithfully teaching their little ones about Jesus, I know I have given a legacy that will bear fruit for the kingdom of God. Our faith has been passed onto a new generation, and by God’s grace, it will grow in the lives of our grand-children.


I pray as we all walk with Jesus in the Living Way, we’ll pass on the lessons we’re learning.  Begin by sharing them at home. Teach them to your children. Demonstrate them in your home, so you can follow Jesus together and be the light that will draw others into the family of God.

BUILDING A HOME OF FAITH



FAITH IN GOD is the most important value you can pass on to your children. If your child was a tree, faith would be the roots that supports everything that goes on in his life. Faith enables your child to trust in a Friend he cannot see, to believe Jesus loves  him no matter what he does, and to have total confidence in every word He says.

WHEN YOUR CHILD HAS FAITH IN GOD
He believes Jesus died on the cross to save him because God loves him and wants to be with him always. 
She believes what Jesus tells her in His book, the Bible. She knows every word is true.
He believes that Jesus will help him make the right choices and guide him every day.
She believes Jesus will help her when she's in trouble and tell her what to do.
He believes Jesus will always forgive him when he makes mistakes.
She believes Jesus is always with her.
He believes Jesus wants to be his very best Friend. And he wants to be with Him today, tomorrow, and spend eternity with Him in heaven.




GOD'S VIEW OF FAITH
Faith is a gift from God. Jesus promises to give us faith, if we ask for it (Matthew 7:7).
We can't make faith on our own. But God gives everyone a certain amount of faith--enough to begin a trusting relationship with Him. Our faith grows as we spend time with Jesus. The Bible says, "Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God" (Romans 10:17). When we hear what God has done, when we see His promises come to life, our faith and trust in Him will grow.


HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD GROW IN FAITH

Build an Atmosphere of Faith at Home. Children absorb the atmosphere around them. Atmosphere can be felt as soon as you step into a home. Make yours spiritual and faith building. Ask yourself, "If a stranger came to our house, how would he know if we have faith in God?"

Share Your Joy in the Lord. Talk about the special things God has done for your family. Thank Him every day for His new blessings. Make a "Joy in Jesus" notebook about your family. Put in it all the wonderful gifts you have received from God. Share with your child how Jesus fills your life with joy.

Pray for Your Child and with Your Child. Start and end your day by talking to Jesus. Pray for God's angels to surround your child before he goes off to school. Pray about any problems that come up at home. Ask the Holy Spirit to be with your child all the time. And teach her to pray for others.




Read God's Word as a Family. Find a relaxing time of day to enjoy reading God's Word together. Use a modern version so your child will understand what the Bible says. Focus first on stories in the gospels. Then branch out to other faith stories about people who loved God and had strong faith in Him. Have Family Worship every day by reading the Bible, a Bible Study lesson, or another devotional book.

Share Your Personal Faith Journey. Tell your child how you first fell in love with Jesus. Share how you've followed Him  and how He's answered your prayers. Tell him about the ups and downs. Always let her know how Jesus provided for everything you need. He will begin to learn that no matter what happens, Jesus is always there for you!

Make Bible Learning Interesting and Fun. Create happy memories around God's Word. Use Bible games, DVD's, videos, tapes and crafts. Give your child his own special Bible. As she grows, help her to use a Bible concordance. Learn about Bible customs. Use Bible maps. Avoid hard words and long lessons whenever teaching your child about God's Word.

Teach Your Child that Prayer is Having a Friendship with Jesus. Prayer is talking to Jesus and He's a forever Friend who's always there. Teach your child that he can talk to Jesus about anything anytime and anywhere he goes.

Learn How to Share Faith as a Family. Faith in Jesus is love for Jesus. It's not just something we believe in our heads. It's Someone we know and love with all our heart. A Family of Faith passes on their faith wherever they are. Do things as a family  to spread the joy you have in God's love, the confidence you have in His Word, and the hope you have that Jesus is coming soon. Share faith in your neighborhood. Pass out little tracts. Share with a shut-in a picture your child has made. Visit the sick and sing a song or a Bible verse  you're learning at home. There are many people who need faith in God and so many ways we can share it!


May Jesus Christ dwell in your hearts
and in your home through faith.

And may the Lord bless you
as you pass on this faith
as a witness
to others.